Candle Spells for Love
Candle Spells for Love ,”The best love spells you can do are the ones that are infused with self love, love for yourself. If you are coming from a place of low self esteem, or a desperate desire to prove your worth through the love of another person, then you are not blessing yourself, or anyone else. If you are attempting to “put a spell on someone” and make that person magically love you, you are not blessing yourself. If you are doing anything other than seeking to open yourself up to someone whom you can love freely and who can love you freely, you are not blessing yourself.
Take it from someone who knows. The only candle love spell I ever did that worked—actually worked—is the one I will describe to you now. After many years of unfulfilled, sometimes even abusive, relationships, I had that same sense of desperation and loneliness I described above. It is only after much spiritual and therapeutic work that I learned that the spell for love must begin with self love and the understanding of what I truly wanted from a relationship. Was it the excitement of living through someone else, or was it the need to have someone listen to me and care about me? Was it money and success in the world, or was it the need for companionship and comfort and security?
Once I made those decisions for myself, I decided to visit a little shop I had known for many years. It was run by a woman from whom I have obtained many intuitive readings. She listened to what I had to say, gave me the advice I just dispensed to you, and then gave me a spell candle kit. When I got home I unwrapped my basket.Inside was a candle that represented a man, a candle that represented a woman, a love spell on parchment, and some oil. I read the instructions. I was advised to do my spell on the New Moon, the time with the most energy for new beginnings—but the instructions included the injunction that I could do the candle magic anytime I wanted to. Now I, being informed as to the benefits of astrology, knew that the New Moon was the best time. I also knew that—after a terribly hard year, filled with a lot of unhappiness and a very disastrous relationship—I didn’t want to wait for the New Moon. So I did it anyway, that same day.I waited for a quiet time, then I anointed both candles, all the while intoning my love ideals; what I hoped for in a relationship. I asked that I be coupled with someone kind and generous who would be faithful to me. I asked for someone who was ready and willing to accept my love. I attached no conditions to the person about looks, money, or age. I simply asked that he be the one person in the universe with whom I was meant to be, and vice versa. His character was the most important thing to me, along with the ability to be open to my love. I then lit the candles and said the love spell over them. The essence of the spell was a request for the Universe recognize my need for love, a statement that love is a human need, and a declaration that I was as entitled to it as everyone else in the Universe. I added a request that the right person be brought to me, regardless of who he was or where he was in this universe.
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